Along with many others on the planet I was continually frustrated by the forced Windows 10 updates that would sometimes take 2hrs to complete and no way to have just the notify option available on my Windows 10 Home edition.
I found this very useful little ‘hack’ from ITechnics which enables gpedit, which in turn allows you to configure Windows updates to notify only.
Please note, if you have run the ‘add gpedit’ program and then load up the Anniversary update it will disable GPedit again…phaa
https://www.itechtics.com/wp-content/uploads/files/add_gpedit_msc_by_jwils876-d3kh6vm.zip